I am a widow. My husband and I had many adventures and had previously had a relationship with a couple other women. Now that it is just me, I felt since I am bi and want a thruple, I would go looking to see if it is possible. As in a real relationship with both parties. If I cannot find that, I would seek a relationship with either male or female. I am independent, passionate, caring, love sex, funny, a nerd (for most things), and am looking for a real relationship. I am not merely looking for a hook up.